When to be happy, when to be sad
There’s some tension between what the Bible says about “rejoicing always” and “mourning with those who mourn.” So how do you and …
How a slimy, bald man encouraged me
The service was over. I remember I played drums in the worship band that day. I don’t remember the sermon. Everyone’s filing …
The 3 essential tools for influencing others
A lot about serving others comes back to influencing them. Giving them stuff is one thing but helping them shift their perspective …
One cliche that can go a long, long way
The other day, I wrote in my journal about a cliche I need to remember. Like you, I’ve heard about it over …
Citing God: An abandoned habit
The other day, I was listening to an Indian guy online talk about the Internet. Right in the middle of the conversation, …
How to deepen a friendship (in half an hour)
Following the pattern of How to Make a Friend (in 10 Days), I wanted condense it down even more. How can you …
How To Make A Friend (In 10 Days) – Free eBook
Greetings, fellow bondChristians! I’m insanely excited to (finally) announce the release of my first ebook: How to Make a Friend (in 10 …
Convo-Tip #5: Own a conversation starter
Conversations with friends, even acquaintances, are one thing. Conversations with… well, people you don’t even know, that’s another. Probably the most immediate …
Convo-Tip #4: Ask for advice or opinions
People love to talk when they feel like what they say is valued. That’s why important people get tired of superficial conversations. …
Convo-Tip #3: Speak like a singer
Ever met someone who sounds like a constant library voice? What about the other guy, the one who sounds like the “Cold …