The 7 benefits of serving others
What’s the big deal with getting everyone to serve others? Why not just have everyone serve themselves? After all, that would cut …
10 common mistakes of wannabe bondChristians
The other day, I was like, “Hmm… what are some of my most common mistakes in ministering to others? Where do I …
When does “you serving them” become “them taking advantage of you”?
This is a question I’ve been asked – in one form or another – many, many times. This isn’t the answer you’re …
What I’m learning from questions, Monkey Town, and questions about Monkey Town
Evolving in Monkey Town is about a southern, church girl, Rachel Held Evans, who grows up in fundamentalist Christian culture, enters a …
The opposite of serving
I love finding opposites. Usually I’ll try to move toward one and away from the other, which helps me align with my goals. So I want to share one of the basic opposites behind bondChristan: the opposite of serving.
Realizing makes things matter
I’m in the process of writing a beast of a post on how to realize. In the meantime, though, I thought I’d throw something out here for you to consider.
Ask yourself these 40 questions to evaluate your premises
Since premises affect so much of everything else we do, I’ve put together a bunch of questions to help us dig into some of them. Check it out – this is a nice weekend homework assignment. :>)
What’s your premise? ‘Cause Machiavelli had the right tactics
In 1513, Niccolo Machiavelli wrote a book explaining how a prince should acquire and maintain political power. As you know, the book …
Success = Submission
Just a couple sentences for you about success for the bondChristian.
“Everyone’s bad”: A guide to optimism
Despite everything, Anne Frank thought people are basically good. As much as I love Anne Frank, she’s wrong.